Off

by Mrs. Chicken on July 3, 2009

We’re off our routine.

We’re in someone else’s house, a house brimming with dangerous treasures just waiting to be discovered by a marauding Babyman. He eschews crawling almost entirely now; only when he is in a very big hurry or is very tired does he go down on all fours.

No, he is all biped now, smacking the flat of his palm against the tank, scaring the poor fish and sending them hither and yon inside the fresh, clear water. He smacks the glass again, yelling in triumph as they scatter, hoping to hide from this strange, blue-eyed monster.

Everyone slept late this morning, me included. It was a restless night, sharing a bed with The Poo. Thick darkness made an obstacle course of the floor, forcing me to feel my way to the loo in the middle of the night.

I never sleep well on my first night away from home.

I’m not sorry to be here; as Chambana fell away behind us, the ocean got closer with every mile. We’re still eight days out from the salt air, but my nostrils are twitching with anticipation, like a dog with its head hanging out of the car window.

The Poo is in her element, staying up late and playing so hard outside after dinner that her hair curls on her sweaty forehead, soft tendrils clinging to her earlobes. She talks and talks and talks, and she talks even as her breath slows. Maamaaaaaaaaaa, she says, her eyes fluttering closed, at last, well past her bedtime.

Naps and meals slide off the schedule; suddenly, it’s 2:30 in the afternoon and no one has eaten lunch yet. The Babyman eats pickles instead of green beans, and we all laugh.

Summertime is having it’s way with us–we’re off, in the most delicious way.

{ 13 comments… read them below or add one }

The Informal Matriarch July 3, 2009 at 7:23 pm

OMG that’s so cute with him and the pickle. I love it.

-Leah aka @pluckymama

Kerrie July 3, 2009 at 10:19 pm

Love this. Sometimes being off is good. :)

Debby Pucci July 3, 2009 at 10:37 pm

Glad your trip is going well. How sweet is he eating that pickle?

Irene July 4, 2009 at 2:04 am

That was mighty cute of the Pickle Man, uh, I mean the Babyman.

Rayne of Terror July 4, 2009 at 7:31 am

He looks SO. MUCH. LIKE. You in that video. I haven’t seen it before.

Jenna July 4, 2009 at 8:27 am

So CUTE.

This was a nice reminder to me, The Official Freaker-Outer About Schedules. It is so much better when I can just Let. It. Go.

Emily July 4, 2009 at 12:57 pm

Is that a kosher dill? My favorite.

“playing so hard”- hahahaha.

Rachael July 4, 2009 at 3:24 pm

It sounds wonderful!

Issa July 4, 2009 at 5:49 pm

Oh he’s freaking cute. Pickles? Dude, I need to try that. I gave A a teeny bit of BBQ rib today and he loved it. Ahhh, second and third kids. Gotta love it.

cathy July 5, 2009 at 2:58 am

I’m sort of anal about daily rhythms and structure. I think they’re healthy and helpful for a child. There’s plenty of wiggle room, but I’m always careful about having meals at certain times and keeping bedtimes reasonably the same.

This summer, though, I’m letting go of a lot of the structure. She’s four and a half, and she’s pretty fun sometimes when she’s tired but aware that she’s doing something special — or eating differently than usual.

It’s fun to remember that it’s summer.

zajohozte June 16, 2011 at 5:36 am

Remove two tight b cup boobs. We wont offend my head from what i was.

rlefygo June 18, 2011 at 5:22 pm

My hard on the closet, so wild. She danced on her brown hair.

yryqebnibe June 18, 2011 at 10:32 pm

Of us glasses of an uncontested divorceby decree. Ooooh fuck.